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What is Emotional Abuse?

Doyle (2003) describes Emotional Abuse is an ‘act  of commission or omission which is judged on the basis of a combination of community standards and professional expertise to be psychologically damaging. Such acts are committed by individuals, singly or collectively, who by their characteristics i.e. age, status, knowledge, organisational form, are in a position of differential power that renders a child vulnerable. Such acts damage immediately or ultimately the behavioural, cognitive, affective or physical functioning of the [person].’ (Hart, Germain & Brassard 1987)

What are some examples of Emotional Abuse?

• Having basic survival items withheld (e.g., food, clothing, shelter)
• Being threatened with harm or injury
• Having someone harm another person or pet in front of you
• Being isolated from friends, family or other supportive people
• Being compelled to commit a crime or engage in criminal activity
• Being on the receiving end of scapegoating
• Being singled out in your family and treated differently than others
• Subjected to verbal abuse, name calling, or bullying
• Having your acts of affection rejected
• Being commanded or compelled to do things against your free will
• Being given an excessive level of responsibility (e.g. a child caring for other children) 
• Witnessing domestic abuse in the home, at school or in the workplace
• Having your needs go unmet while an intimate partner consistently meets their own needs
• Love is given conditionally
• Affection is withheld
• Being placed in fear inducing situations
• Compelled to participate in harming another person or animal
• Made to feel like you're "crazy" for thinking a certain way

Emotional abuse leaves people feeling unworthy of love and affection. It damages a person's sense of self-worth and self-esteem which may result in a diminished sense of human potential and self-efficacy. If you or a loved one is being emotionally abused, reach out and ask for help.  Life can be better, and there are countless ways of assisting you in finding the help you need. For additional information and support, contact a caring professional who understands what you are experiencing. 

References

Doyle, C. (2003) Child emotional abuse: the role of educational professionals. Educational and Child Psychology; Volume 20, Issue 1, p. 8-21